and i absolutely agree with you, i came from england, via canada to america, coming with young children, i was pregnant when i came to canada, my company there had to maneuver the rules to give me paid maternity leave, but they did, and then i had my second baby there and if knowing what happens here, it's shocking. i believe that east timor is the only country in the world that has worse maternity benefits than the united states. >> yes. was there a question too? [inaudible] >> oh, right. well, you know, i think part of it is being inside washington, and having the whole inside washington political machinality, but i do think that -- and you know, 20, 30 years ago, i didn't think i'd say this so much, but now i do say it. it's not enough to have women. you've got to have feminists in politics, because we know there are women in politics who are very anti-feminist. and so it's important to have feminists in politics, so the problem again is it is very difficult for women to run for office, especially if they're mothers, because it's very labor and time intense difficult, and they have t