what about milk for lola? jack, your bag is undone. right. please. in you get. we've never been late yet. who is your chaperone today? okay. give me a kiss. as soon as i sit at my desk it's wonderful. you just kind of sit and you go, ah, that's great. >> i am just exhausted just watching that. so we'll talk about this. here with me in new york is cnn commentator and human behavior expert, mel robbins, you know her, and sandra singh lowe, who has a book out this week called "the mad woman and the volvo, my year of raging hormones." welcome to both of you. i'll tread lightly in this statement. sandra, let me start with you. it's quite a title to the book. where did it come from? this whole juggling act we're talking about, how did you decide to write this? >> well, i'm a mother. i'm a 52-year-old mother of a teen and a pre-tween daughter and i'm menopausal, so all these hormones are hitting at the same time for mothers who are in the sandwich generation i call it, the triple ms, middle-aged mothers in menopause, women feel very overwhelmed right now. and our copin